The Grit of a Girl
For the Midland Daily News
For Bullock Creek sixth grader Sophie Sherwood, her favorite days are hitting days.
“It’s fun to hit and tackle people,” the 11-year-old says through a smirk while playing Madden NFL ‘15 and sporting a Spartan sweatshirt.
Her mother Heidi Sherwood laughs and agrees, “When she played t-ball it was full contact.”
And even her Bullock Creek youth football program coach Pete Kirk notices it. “She hits tough just like any of her teammates.”
But now, Sophie is tackling not just players but the stereotype that girls don’t belong in football. Inspired by Bullock Creek seventh grader Allie Young, who plays on the seventh-grade team’s offensive line, Sophie has continued the legacy by playing for the middle school program for the second year in a row as wide receiver and safety — the only girl on her team. The teams range from the fifth to eighth grade students and span the months of mid-August to mid-October. This year, Sophie’s team ended with an even record of 3-3.
Sophie’s love for football started by watching games with her dad Robert Sherwood on the weekends. Her favorite college team? The Spartans. Professional? The Seahawks. And if you ask her who her favorite player is she’ll give you a list and still rattle off some more.
After watching Allie Young, Sophie, who was in third grade, begged her mother to let her play. Despite Heidi’s reservations about her daughter’s safety, Heidi decided to let Sophie play once she was eligible for the fifth grade team and after a talk with her husband and Allie’s parents.
“It’s not for the faint of heart,” Heidi says. Although she admits that any contact sport is difficult for parents, Heidi urges other parents of daughters who want to play football to let them try.
“Expect some hard times,” she says. “They may not be accepted right away.” In fact, Sophie has had to fend off unnecessary roughness.
“Some of the players would be like, you’re a girl, you can’t play,” Sophie mentions about the attitudes of some teammates or opponents when she first started.
However, Heidi notices a difference between this year and last and the attitudes of both the community and the team.
“A lot of parents will come up and say, ‘Good for her!’”
Perhaps that attitude will help fuel her forward to high school ball, which Sophie does want to play. She might have to choose between her second-favorite sport — soccer.
Sophie’s parting words for girls who want to try male-dominated sports? “If the boys give you a hard time, ignore them, and keep doing it.”